Add tx backlog instrumentation and configurable cap
Track the maximum tx backlog length (overflow queue behind the mempool) via events, and add a leios-tx-backlog-max-size config parameter that applies backpressure on the tx generator when the backlog is full. Peer transactions are unaffected by the cap. Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <[email protected]>