net-rs: add Leios coordinator extensions (Phase 4e)
Replace stub-forwarded Leios events with smart coordinator logic: - Slot-bounded dedup for EB, TX, and vote offers across peers - Per-offer peer tracking for RTT-based smart fetch routing - Pending fetch dedup and cleanup on peer failure - Separate LeiosBlockTxsOffered/LeiosBlockTxsReceived events - FetchLeiosBlockTxs (with bitmap) and FetchLeiosVotes commands - leios_dedup_window config (default 1000 slots) - 8 new coordinator tests (255 total) - Live-tested: serve --leios → multi-follow --leios (two connections) Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <[email protected]>